What Is Shibari?

Shibari (also often referred to as kinbaku) is a form of Japanese rope bondage. It differs from Western rope bondage a few ways: it uses non-stretchy natural fiber rope, either jute or hemp, instead of softer cotton, silk or polyester rope; it focuses on friction and wraps instead of knots; it uses the rope doubled over at the middle, a point called the bight, and works down toward the ends; and it has a deep focus on the aesthetic of the ties.

Shibari uses building blocks and repeated patterns that fit together to create ties. Once you learn these blocks and patterns and some basic safety, you can often figure out how to repeat a tie you see elsewhere. (You’ll learn several of these building blocks in the rest of this series.)

Shibari is derived from Hojojutsu, a martial art used in the Edo period (1600 to the mid-1800s) by the Samurai to arrest and restrain prisoners with rope. Often prisoners were publicly shamed by being displayed tied in ropes, which usually conveyed their class and crime, before execution or imprisonment. Hojojutsu died away at the end of the Edo period when the shogunate were overthrown.

People in Japan started to use the Hojojutsu ties for BDSM, and to play with the physical restraint and emotional shame of being tied. This art of tight and often painful sexual or sensual tying became known as shibari (decorative tying) or kinbaku (tight binding).

What does Dominate mean?
Dominate refers to a practice in the BDSM lifestyle where one partner exercises physical and emotional control over the other both in a sexual and non-sexual context. The superior party is often referred to as the Dominant (Dom) or Dominatrix (Domme) while their partner is known as a submissive. Erotic domination is enjoyable to both partners. A safe word is commonly established to ensure that both parties remain firmly within pre-determined boundaries.

Yoni massage - What is it?

This is a type of sensual massage — but it isn’t about sex or foreplay. Yoni massage therapy aims to help you feel more comfortable with your body and gain a better understanding of what feels good to you. Yoni is the Sanskrit word for vagina, and it translates to “a sacred space.” A yoni massage approaches the vagina as a revered part of the body, worthy of respect and honor. It can be done alone or with a partner, with or without taking things to the next level. Intrigued? Here’s how to get started. What are the benefits? Yoni massage allows you to explore your body in a slow, methodical, and sensual way — without the all-too-common pressure to “perform” for a partner. The ultimate goal is to feel comfortable in your own skin and more in tune with your body. You may also find the practice beneficial if you’ve experienced sexual trauma. For some, the slow and purposeful approach may aid in reconnecting with the body and approaching sensuality from a place of positivity.


What Is an Energy Orgasm?

energy-orgasm Basically, it’s an orgasm that you create entirely in by yourself in your own mind and body. Sounds crazy, huh? It’s not, so don’t let it scare you. Let’s delve into what makes energy orgasms different to your everyday physical ones on the surface. Your Brain Focuses on Cumming – Not Your Body So many of us believe that an orgasm is a purely physical reaction to pleasure. But, what if you could unlock other parts of yourself… your mind and soul, to add to that pleasure as well? Of course, it would make it better, and bigger! Energy orgasms focus on just that – your energy, rather than physical cues. Did you know your body has seven ‘energy centers’? Yep! These centers are where energy orgasms are channeled and made. They basically let you connect your spiritual body with your physical one, align everything and release all of your sexual energy from deep inside to give you a more fulfilling orgasm. The science behind the whole thing says focusing on your energy can massively increase the way your nervous system responds to unconscious actions that you normally can’t control. Since, as humans, we are pretty much walking orbs of energy, tapping into different frequencies and vibrations allows us to unlock energy fields…. And more pleasure. Pretty cool, huh?

What is a lingam massage?

Lingam is a Sanskrit word. Lingam broadly translates into “Wand of Light” and refers to the man’s sacred pleasure sword. ( aka the penis) Mastering tantra and sacred sexuality you need to learn to love the lingam. Being comfortable to touch, feel, masturbate or worship this sacred source of pleasure. Lingam massage can be performed alone as a masturbation process (single man) or as couple ritual to raise consciousness and intimacy within the relationship. Learning to be better in sexuality requires being comfortable, able to adore, worship and caress the most sacred area of your own or partner’s penis. Lingam massage is the fancier phrase of the well spread Western phrase of ‘hand-job’. However, lingam massage not only focuses on the penis but all areas around it, such as the testicles and Sacred spot (aka the prostate). Lingam massage is done with more thoughtful, caress, slow movements to awaken the male energy. Orgasms are welcomed, but not the primary or end focus of the lingam massage. Performing a lingam massage, you need to connect with your partner in a deep, intimate and energetic level. Tune into your Divine Feminine Energy & Connect to the Universal ‘Chi’. Listen to your partner’s feedback in order to be able to give the best lingam massage to him. If the ‘Chi’ (life force) energy is able to move within the body, he can experience a full body orgasm. The lingam massage will awaken the male sexual energy. It can be released for pleasure or can be accumulated as sexual energy which can be transformed into creativity. Lots of famous artists use their ‘Chi’ to gather sexual energy and express through their creative work. Expand his orgasm by moving the life-force energy up to his heart.

What do I do/ What is tantric lingam massage?

I do a tantric lingam massage. Lingam is the Sanskrit word for penis. And tantric lingam massage is a massage of the whole body including the penis.
We hold negative emotions, pains, and traumas in our bodies. The aches and pains we feel in our bodies are a reflection of the inner pains we feel about ourselves. Tantric lingam massage is a technique that has been used for thousands of years to help us gently release these negative emotions by truly connecting with our bodies and harvesting our sexual energy to heal. By releasing negative emotions we allow ourselves to be open to personal, sexual and spiritual growth. Thus, the touch involved in the massage is not done with arousal or orgasmic intention. The touch is done with joy, wonder, and love to help us grow.

Orgasm is not the goal of the Lingam massage although it can be a pleasant and welcome side effect. The goal is to massage the Lingam, also including testicles, perineum and Sacred Spot (prostate) externally, allowing the man to surrender to a form of pleasure he may not be accustomed to. From this perspective both receiver and giver relax into the massage.

Men need to learn to relax and receive. Traditional sexual conditioning has the man in a doing and goal oriented mode. The Lingam Massage allows the man to experience his softer, more receptive side and experience pleasure from a non-traditional perspective.

Can a tantric lingam massage help me with?

A tantric lingam massage can help with problems of erectile dysfunction and pre-mature ejaculation. It can also help with sexual traumas, stress, and other pains in the body.

Where do I work?

I mainly work from my private home just outside of Boyle Co. Roscommon.
I also work from a private apartment in Dublin 7 every other Monday. Please contact me for an up to date schedule. All other times I work from Boyle.

Do I do outcalls?

No. I have clients from all over the country who come to me. I do the massage where I am comfortable.

Do I do ``full service``?

No. I do not kiss clients. I do not have sex or perform sexual acts with clients. This is an intimate, healing massage. Not sex.

What do I wear?

The first half of the massage is done wearing a sarong. The second half of the massage is done nude.

Can you touch me?

No. The massage is about letting go and surrendering control. I am in control during the massage. Learning how to receive in this way can teach you how to be a better lover. The profound feeling felt within the lingam massage is the process of allowing the body to accept the pleasure whilst remaining in total surrender, so the receiver will feel the sensations that occur when fighting the urge to respond.

Why do I recommend a 90 minute massage?

A tantric lingam massage should be savoured and not rushed. 90 minutes allows time for the whole body to be celebrated. It also allows for a longer build of sexual energy which is more healing for the body.
I am also available for an hour long massage. I do not do shorter appointments.

When do I work from

I am available to work from 9.30 until 9 Monday–Wednesday, Saturday and Sunday. Thursdays I am available from 9.30 until 9. Fridays I am available from 9.30 until 9. Please contact me in advance to book an appointment.

Last appointment 9pm 

Why everyone should experience a Tantric Massage?

The art of Tantra has been practiced for over 9,000 years. It’s origins have been traced back to the Himalayan Mountains in India, where religious leaders believed that sexual ritual was the path to a higher form of ecstasy and liberation. Today’s tantric massage takes the teachings of Tantra and translates them into a full-body experience. A traditional massage is heightened by incorporating breathing exercises and genital stimulation. The tantric massage is a must for anyone looking for complete mind and body relaxation, with the added benefit of a ‘happy ending’. Here are eight reasons why every man and woman should book a tantric massage the next time he visits the parlor. 1. Relax Your Body A tantric massage relaxes much more than just your aching back and shoulders. Every part of your body is meticulously cared for, not one area being ignored. Many first timers are surprised that they can remain so relaxed while getting aroused at the same time, but tantric massage seeks to satisfy and relax your entire being at once. 2. Improve Your Breathing Tantric massage incorporates many breathing techniques that have been proven effective for centuries. The breathing methods you will use during your massage will help to enhance the overall experience and moreover teach you how to use breathing to control your natural bodily responses. 3. Emotional Healing Tantric is first and foremost aimed at your emotional well-being. While there are wonderful physical attributes, you can expect even greater results emotionally. As you learn to receive pleasure, self-esteem and self-worth are heightened, leading to a better overall happiness. 4. Experience Pleasure Pleasure comes in many forms during the tantric massage. You will have pleasure from your muscles relaxing, pleasure from the spiritual balance it brings and pleasure from your sexual energy being replenished and fulfilled. Most of the time the arousal experienced during the massage leads to orgasm, which is welcomed but not the overall goal. 5. Become Self-Aware There is no better way to become aware of your very self than by giving up complete control in every aspect to another person. A tantric massage requires you to abandon inhibitions and insecurities and lay them at the hands of the masseuse. As every part of your body is given complete attention, you will get to know yourself in new ways and discover parts of your inner-being that you weren’t previously aware of. 6. Better Health The tantric massage will improve your circulation, emotional well-being, and decrease your stress levels. All of these things will leave you in better health, with an improved physical and emotional outlook going forward. 7. Curb Impulses The breathing techniques that you acquire during a tantric massage will help you to control your most natural human impulses. Many find that issues they once had, such as premature ejaculation, are significantly helped once they learn how to re-focus their minds and enjoy pleasure in the present moment rather than as a means to an end. 8. Fight Stress Any massage will help those dealing with stress, but the tantric massage takes it one step further than simply relaxing your body. Since tantric focuses on your emotional, physical, spiritual and sexual health all at once, you will leave with a renewed sense of self and lowered stress as a result of it. If you are considering a tantric massage, the benefits are obviously much more than simply helping pain or stiffness in your body. You may have never experienced a prolonged feeling of arousal, but the end result will likely be more powerful than you ever could have imagined. Give yourself the gift of unsurpassed pleasure and book your tantric massage today. I don’t know about you, but I will certainly be booking my massage on my next visit to Love Dakinibelle 0866053298